I can remember a time when a man would say exactly what was on his mind, no holding back, and without fear of the outcome. Wisdom comes in knowing when to bite your tongue but if you're such a "puss" to never speak up about anything then you might as well kill yourself because your dead anyway. This especially applies when a woman tries to run your life. If you're afraid to tell her to "shut the F@#! up", then you don't deserve your nuts. You may never have to tell your woman this, but never ever be afraid to let it fly.